First of all, and in all due respect, it was not and is not as though the typical black person here also had or have any sayso, i. e., over who is or who isn't being welcomed with open arms etc. to this nation...
Also, in all due honesty, people like yourself (if you are a former immigrant) are the exception, whereas even those with shared ancestry with us here usually didn't and don't even feel or think a need or a want to find out what else we share in common,
i. e., culturally/socially/etc.
Nothing new or news about that, since other immigrants also seek out those like themselves, i. e., for mutual advice/support/etc.
So, in my humble (or not so humble) opinion, it is on the (too oftentimes) personal and subjective side, many on both sides presume too much, and base it on far too little...
On the other hand: Though none of us here know 'everything-- most of us do know something-- i. e., be it about setbacks regarding africans truly controlling their fates among the nations/peoples of the African motherland or elsewhere...
It's just that we-- in the states-- can't be expected to be all things to all comers-- from the rest of the african disaspora...
A relative handful here also realized we had no or litttle choice to back Obama over Romney, and that had more to do with the setbacks to the victories won by the Civil Rights and Black Power movements the other candidate reflected, i. e.,, since their's no such thing as separate AND equal!
Instead, the misconception of what those of us-- in the Black Power camps-- were (or are advocating)-- had and has nothing or little to do with the mere skin tone etc. of the person winning various elective public offices, etc. etc. etc.
That is a self serving misrepresentation of what we were or are about too...
Romney lost because he also presumed emotional appeals merely being based on the white voters presumed shared biases (with his own) would rally the faithful to vote him into the White House...
If that was ever true, it's not anymore!
But the illusion of mere inclusion plagues our relations beliefs and their politics...
In all cases, truly knowing who is against or for us, has to be more than based on wishful 'thinking'...
One is reactionary or progressive, via their deeds and words...
End of speech...
FYI...